📅 Thought for today:
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‘When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.’
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— Irvin D Yalom
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#thoughtfortoday #Yalom #HilmotMatrix #ConfluenceCircles #curisoity #inspiration
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Irvin Yalom has been the single biggest source of inspiration for me as a therapist.
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His book, “Love’s Executioner” has been read by many people, whether in practice or not, and helped me develop my own narrative style.
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I have attended online events where he has talked about his life and his beliefs, and a masterclass with him and his son.
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This inspiration has moved me to work on a model I use with my clients to help them move away from judgement toward curiosity. I was also inspired by one of my tutors, Joan Wilmot.
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Joan and I will be presenting this model at the International Supervision Week online conference at the end of the month.
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I have used this visual model with my clients and they have reported how useful and effective it has been. It is not finished (nor will it ever be). It is a living and evolving thing that helps us, as professionals, help our clients.
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I will be writing more about the development of this work in the coming weeks and months.
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It is however notable that the two new major projects in my life, Hilmot Matrix and Confluence Circles were both initially inspired by Irv Yalom, who sparked some curiosity in me.