📅 Thought for today:
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‘You can get away with a lot of s**t if it looks like it`s all you know how to do.’
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— Henry Rollins
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#thoughtfortoday #deceive #lie #dupe #lying #reprehensible #allyoudo
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If you are British you will know immediately why this quote is in my mind today.
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For everyone else, recent UK political events will solve the mystery.
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Getting away with it, pulling a fast one, and deceiving people can be quite hurtful if you are on the receiving end.
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There are serial practitioners who do this with their personal relationships or partners – consistently.
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And some gain pleasure from knowing they duped someone else.
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Underneath it all is some uncomfortable truth about their upbringing, values and core beliefs.
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People do what they do for a reason and people who do bad things are not bad people.
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Some of these traits start to aggregate into labelling – we like giving and being given labels.
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I generally avoid labels, particularly in the medicalisation of mental health.
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Yet some people just live up to the words we use to describe their behaviour – lying scumbag for instance – and it makes us feel good at that moment. It would be professionally unethical to describe someone this way, I’m glad that today I am a normal human being, just like you.
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BTW I had to asterisk that word to comply with social media censorship – there is a whole other post I can write about that – I wouldn’t normally bother with asterisks!