📅 Thought for today:
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‘Change happens by listening and then starting a dialogue with the people who are doing something you don’t believe is right.’
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— Jane Goodall
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#thoughtfortoday #change #listen #communicate #talk #mouth #ears #dialogue #telepathy
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If I say “communicating” do you think talking or listening?
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In situations with clients who are managers or leaders of people, I often find myself exploring their beliefs about communication.
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“They should know what I want (or mean)”, are words oft spoken by clients.
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“They” are not telepathic.
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So finding an effective way to communicate is important.
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As John Adair said, “Communication is the sister of leadership.”
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Communication is not talking though.
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It involves a lot of listening.
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And listening is not the same as hearing.
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Getting better at all of this complicated “stuff” requires practice. We have the basic tools, the equipment if you will.
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We just didn’t bother reading the manual. Or notice how many bits of equipment we have.
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Two ears and one mouth.